Every year we grow, I believe. However, the extent or level of growth and transformation is determined by our experiences. Experiences help us form opinions and make decisions that is why it is important how we react to the things happening in our lives and around us. I would have started with strengthening my relationship with God and stuff like that, but that has always been key to my existence, so,
5 Things That Have Become Important To Me
1. Self-Love. I am dedicating the next few years to living for myself and doing things I love, which includes living my dreams and helping people. I’m also getting rid of negative energies and thoughts and their roots, #nodramazone. I’m still figuring the whole process out and taking baby steps, but I know God is with me, and I am definitely a success!
2. Re-evaluating my relationship goals and strategies. This is too broad to discuss all the details here so I will create another post about it. But in a nutshell, it just means, prioritizing those little things that speak volumes when searching for true love, listening to the Holy Spirit, and making sure it is not a one-sided deal.
3. Being A Great Mum: I mean, I am responsible for this beautiful Human God blessed me with, Gorgeous. Knowing I have her made me strong in my difficult times. My goal is to raise her in the wisdom and knowledge of God and give her the best life I can and then live the rest to the Almighty God.
4. Financial Independence: I find it ridiculous each time people say what single moms need most is a man. Being there and done that, I am certain my biggest goal is financial independence and I don’t need a man to get that. It may not be easy climbing this ladder by myself, but a journey of a thousand miles begins with a step and I’m here for it.
5. Fitness & wellness:
This has been a major struggle since childbirth. I don’t really feel fat, but my postpartum baby-bump won’t let me be great. More so, giving birth through CS made it more difficult to get that tummy to suck in ASAP. Meanwhile, joining weight loss groups haven’t done anything for me, so I really need a solution, starting from a gym buddy and a workable meal plan… but in the end, I’ve got to stay motivated to get work done.
I know every year we set goals in the name of ‘new year resolutions that seem never to be realized, but I’m hopeful guys, seriously… pray for me. I need all these five things that have become very important to me to be perfected.
I’m wearing: Cream rose-embroidered skirt from Cresita Clothing, Black sleeveless blouse, a nude shoe from Cavin Klein
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What are the most important things in your life right now?
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